St. Stephen's Episcopal Church
Saturday, May 23, 2015
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Summer 2014: On the road
Our youth will travel to New York City in June for an "urban pilgrimage," working in a soup kitchen at Church of the Holy Apostles, visiting other New York churches, the 9/11 Memorial Museum and other locations.
In July and August, groups will go to the Dominican Republic on a mission trip, and to California on a pilgrimage, exloring the origins of Christianity in this country.
Read about our travels, and what we are experiencing and learning, on the youth blog HERE.
Meet our new youth ministry intern, Bailey Marget
Bailey Marget is our youth ministry intern for the coming program year. Bailey has hit the ground running,joining us as a leader on the trips to New York, the Dominican Republic, and California.
Bailey is a Richmond native and a 2010 graduate of Trinity Episcopal School. Raised in the Roman Catholic Church, Bailey attended St. Gertrude High School her freshman and sophomore years. Her introduction to St. Stephen’s came through the Celtic service and Compline, our Sunday evening services. On one occasion, she ran into JG Wood, a friend from Virginia Tech. This parish has come to feel like a spiritual home for her.
Bailey graduated from Virginia Tech in May with a bachelor’s degree in marketing management and a focus on hospitality and tourism management. Her background in marketing will bring fresh insight to the perennial challenge of convincing teenagers that church is cool. Bailey will help the youth program to make better use of photography, video, and social media. But more importantly, her warm, charismatic personality will give our kids what they really desire: genuine caring and connection.
About youth at St. Stephen's
Welcome to the St. Stephen's youth community! However you ended up on this page, we're glad you're here. At St. Stephen's Church, young people and adults share their lives with one another to help realize God-given gifts and talents, and to demonstrate God's boundless love and grace.
Where to begin?
If you are new to St. Stephen's--or new to Kairos--you are especially invited and encouraged to join us in Kairos [God's Time].
Kairos is the principal weekly offering for youth in grades 6 through 12 seeking fellowship and Christian formation at St. Stephen's.
Kairos (pronounced KYE-ros) meets Sunday mornings from 10 until 11 a.m. and includes a light breakfast, brief worship, and engaging speaker, and small group time. The photos on this page were taken during Sunday morning Kairos sessions--as you can see, we're having fun.
Kairos [God's Time]
"Kairos" is one of the Greek words for time. "Chronos" (KRO-nos) is the other. Chronos is mechanical time--the ticking of the clock, the passing of the years. Kairos is God's Time. Eternity.
We live our lives in Chronos. We find life in Kairos.
For symbolic and practical reasons, youth and adults leave their cell phones (and other timekeeping devices) in a basket by the door when they enter Kairos. In this way, we physically set our intention to enter God's Time.
Our Mission (or what Jesus says)
Jesus says, "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." (John 13:35) Would we be recognized as disciples? The philosophy of Kairos is to become followers of Christ by practice, not by the study of doctrine and dogma.
Jesus also says, "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:3) Conversations about youth formation in the Church often focus on how we teach and model Christianity to young people. Christ turns this idea on its head. They have the answers, he says, not us! We ought to learn from them. Because we recognize the divine wisdom of childhood and adolescence, Kairos is a faith journey where youth walk side by side with adult mentors. We strive to honor questions, avoid pat answers, and look together for the ways that God is at work in our lives.
Sign up for a series
Kairos runs in 5- to 8-week series, each focusing on a particular topic. Because the heart of Kairos is small groups, youth are encouraged to sign up, to become part of a group that will share a 5- to 8-week journey together.
Youth are welcome to sign up with their friends (members of St. Stephen's or not). All are welcome on any Sunday. Signing up is recommended only for a richer experience; it is not necessary for participation. You may sign up for Kairos here.
The latest information on speakers and Kairos series can be found on Michael Sweeney's blog. If you want to send Michael an email, use this link.
Diocesan Youth Ministry
Youth ministry in the Diocese of Virginia is led by the Parish Youth Ministries Committee (PYM), a group composed of senior high youth from parishes throughout the diocese. This group plans youth weekends at Shrine Mont, an annual youth day of service, and other events. Several St. Stephen's youth serve on PYM.
Want to be part of PYM? Please contact Michael Sweeney or be in touch with Mike Wade in the diocesan office.
Worship Ministries for Youth

All young people in grades 8-12 who feel called to serve at the Lord’s table are encouraged to join St. Stephen’s acolytes. The acolytes meet regularly throughout the year for planning and training.
Lay Readers  
Anyone in grades 8-12 may serve as a Lay Reader at our Sunday worship services.
Sixth and seventh graders serve as ushers at our 9:00 service on Sundays.
Chalice Bearers  
If you are at least 16 years old, confirmed and are interested in being trained, please contact Michael Sweeney.
Video of 2013 youth trip to Azua, Dominican Republic